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- Oh Heck I've Been Scammed -
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Sunday, June 10, 2007
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So all sorts of emotional bullshit (and I will not apologize for that word) is going through my head. I've been scammed. Me? Miss that will never in a million years happen to me. I was so smart by closing many matched on men who just didn't seem right. Whose stories where a little sketchy. But just as smart as they are they kept pursuing me until they finally found that right photograph, that right statement, that right thing to say to tell me that this person was genuine and true. So how did I feel today when I decided to put my uneasiness aside and search any and all websites about scams on eharmony and only to come to a site that had his picture clear as mud as one of the scammers. So many pictures. I mean this poor real guys picture had been used since 2005 to scam people like me. And ofcourse the real guy does live in the state that was given and is very attractive so sure poor suckers like me are going to fall for it. But just a pretty face and enough info to goggle would not be enough to sucker me in because I had stopped four of those butt wipes clean in their tracks. No but the little bit of information I was sharing with each match on eharmony that was ofcourse the same scammers amounted to one big slop of info to woo me over. I'm such a idiot I must confess. I should be single for the rest of my days for this screw up. Yep shoot me now I suck rotten eggs. And to think the length of time that this has been going on I mean over a month. The patience and precision they have to keep trying to get me to fall for them little by little until finally some guy who I think is my prince charming comes to the rescue. This asshole even had the nerve to call my little guy his boy? Wow and to think this guy almost got me. I was falling for his sad story and his want of trust. To put it this way when I first suspected that maybe I was being had because eharmony closed his account after a month...but then they close accounts on innocent people so you really can't take that with a grain of salt...but any way I sent this email and his reply is also below
Here is what I wrote
Hello
I have questions that I need to ask you but I have not heard anything from you in a while. I received word from eharmony that they had closed your account. You asked me to trust you and that you would not play games with me. I did give you information despite my reservations. I gave you my phone number but you gave me a number that is listed in another state (not California) It actually isn't a real number but one of those computer generated numbers. You requested personal information from me but did not care to share the same with me? Most likely I am writing this in vain because if you are not a true person you have moved on to your next target. I hope I am wrong because if I am not this is just one more reason to not put my trust in those I have not meet in the traditional sense. I always found a problem with online sties. So many opportunities for people to pray on the emotions of others. God knows someone's true intentions and I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around. I firmly believe in heaven and hell and God will resolve all things that man cannot. If I am being unduly hard on you I apologize. But you must see it from my point of view. For me to receive something like that from eharmony and not hear a word from you in the last 5 days sends a red flag in every ounce of my being. That is all I have to say.
and here is his reply...ya know the spelling should have tipped me off but ya know I sometimes write bad when I'm upset too
The spammer wrote
You are too busy to show up online to even talk to me and upon being online all the time without seeing you online.All you do is to pass on judgement.
Is that what you think is right for you to do.I am interested in you but cannot keep on with you not showing up online or doubting me.Like I said I was going to travel and since I did not hear from you I could not even tell you I was living.
I am in Ghana now and have lost many files on my pc.You can give me your phone number for my to call you.And the number I called you on is a cell phone number I was using in the states please.
I hope you are your son are fine anyway.
So like an idiot I so apologized for my error in judgment. Dumb really dumb...but then again who said I was smart in the man category. Boy is this a long blog. I'm really tired since I have yet to sleep. But I was correct...it is not up to me to find revenge of for pay back to come at man's hands. He truly did read my words and they will still carry their meaning. God will resolve all things that man cannot.
As always take what you want and leave the rest.
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2 Comments:
Wow - he tried the guilt trip? Obviously he doesn't know you like I know you...and all of our wonderful psychological classes.. You want we should hunt him down and beat him? Sounds like fun to me.
We gots to do that again! I had a great time! Plan it toward the end of July? If we aren't up to spending our going out, you can always bring the little man out to swim. We'd love to have him. We should be doing VBS soon. I'll be home, though.
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